I am in a dark place in life. Those
around me know my struggle, those intimately around me know the worst of
it. I’m not proud of who I am right
now. I struggle daily with anxiety and
an eating disorder, but it isn’t who I used to be. I used to mentor young girls, care for
babies, love everyone around me, and enjoy a night out every once in a
while. I played sports, I attended
school, and I still found time to go to church and spend time with family. I was reaping a good harvest. Now, in this time of “harvest” I am grasping
at broken straws. I have few babies, few
friends, and I have a hard time loving because I have a hard time being around
others. My goal in this time is to help
myself, but I need others to help me too.
When doctors refuse to call or help me, I find myself in a more hopeless
situation. However, when I look at the
relationships I have right now, I realize that they came from a healthy harvest
time. I’ve build intimate relationships
with a handful of women, at a time of joy and laughter, and now, at a time of
tears and sorrow, they are still my people.
Their kids still love me, while I have tainted my trusted reputation,
they let me stick around and love in any way I can. Whether it’s draw pictures, eat a meal with
their family, laugh and dance, watch project runway, practice handwriting or
math with the homeschoolers, snuggle and hold their babies, or just feel like I
am okay enough to be in their homes. While I am not whole, they are helping me
by being present, while also allowing me to be present in my broken state. Some days the kids go to bed and I fall
apart, some days I laugh more than I frown.
Some days I stay up way later than I plan, and other days I leave early
to try and get some sleep. This is a dry
time in my life. I can not produce fruit
in my life. But what I have in my life
are rain makers and farmers who reap for
me or with me. So I am not reaping a harvest of dead fruits
or broken flowers, but I am growing flowers that require a little more
attention, but are not a lost cause.
I am not a lost cause. I am going to successfully reap again. But for now, my rain and my farmers will
stand beside me, leading me to Christ daily, loving me, allowing me to love their
babies, eat their food, and sit on their couches in silence. And that’s enough for now.